The ENFJ are messengers, performers, detectives, and investigators. They study the beliefs and the values of the community and they form messages and stories that connect to people’s experiences. They are always in service of a higher ideal or goal. They are organized and proactive, acting to reach this goal. They are idealistic and recreative types with high social intelligence. They guide and lead people who are lost and unsure of who they are, helping people make a place for themselves in the world. They are executives that live in the moment and work towards their groups goals and ideals.
The ENFJ are very creative and theatrical in their self-expression. You are outspoken and sociable, warm, and affectionate. As an ENFJ, you quickly grow to love and connect with others around you. You’re kind and seek to be a positive influence on the people around you. You also tend to have strong existential and personal beliefs. As an ENFJ, you tend to express your values openly and directly, and without much restraint. But it’s important to you that others share or are inspired by these values. Harmony is a guiding principle for you.
You love to talk freely about your values and your beliefs with others. You’re often found in a big groups and social settings, and you want things to happen around you wherever you go. You’re playful and prefer fun and carefree social interactions over more work-oriented situations. You show high excitement to life in general, you have the temperament of an executive, and you want action, action, action. And the ENFJ love to be on stage, dazzling people with their talents and their scene presence. That’s why ENFJs make the worlds most passionate storytellers. They have everything to throw a good performance and to get people behind them.
You tend to be quick to trust and to share with others, freely expressing your quirky thoughts and emotions with others. The ENFJ freely share their knowledge and their beliefs with others. You can sometimes struggle with a bit of a temper, but you tend to be quick to forgive others. It’s easy for you to build a relation to the things around you, the animals, the people, the places. As an ENFJ, you live like a racecar, always forward, often in a fast manner, and it can be difficult for your friends and loved ones to keep track of everything new in your life. The ENFJ are rebellious and often seek the alternative way, the way nobody else has taken before them.
Because of your love for freedom, you show a tendency towards being anti-establishment. And the ENFJ tend to be distrustful of authority figures, and you recommend others to be aswell. ENFJs are passionate and slightly erratic about their values. You sometimes say and do things you regret, but your friends see this as a part of your charm and honesty. As an ENFJ, you tend to be resistant to new ideas and to new suggestions.
The ENFJs four main intelligences
You will spend your entire life exploring this function, and it will be important to you throughout your entire journey. It represents your ego, your dreams, your conscious experience of “you”. This function is about asserting yourself as a unique person in this world and walking your own journey, being true to yourself. This function is what you love.
This is how you grow and how you improve as a person. Whenever you engage in this function, you’re taking on challenges in life. You’re adding pressure on yourself, and you are in the pursuit of growth and learning opportunities. This function also represents your expectations and the standards you set yourself to.
This function helps you bring balance between your expectations and what you aspire towards, and who you are and your most basic desires. This function also represents a secret superpower within a limited field, something you have an unexpected knack for, for example a hobby.
This function represents your opposing values, the things you find the most tedious and annoying, but which you must sometimes rise up to deal with even if you dislike it. Most of the time, you should avoid making this function a too big influence on your life and your decisions.