The Politician, News-Anchor, Teacher
Patience, Discipline, Kindness and Understanding
Interests and hobbies
Intropersonal Intelligence, Historical Intelligence, Organization Intelligence and Communication Intelligence
Cognitive Functions in flow
Introverted Sensing, Introverted Feeling, Feeling Judging and Sensing Judging
The ISFJs dominant needs come from being around extroverted sensing, extroverted feeling, feeling perceiving and sensing perceiving.
ISFJs are kind, charming, gentle and sensitive types. Patient and careful, and with a strong sense of roots. ISFJs are methodical and often run busy schedules and to-do lists. They like to have things mapped out and seek a sense of routine to life. At their best, they see life as a place where there are always interesting things happening. ISFJs like activity, and do their best to keep up with the spontaneity and chaos that is life.
Typically, ISFJs are described as modest and friendly. Easy to talk to, but without the energy and passion of their extroverted counterparts. They are more calm and relaxed in social settings and prefer to observe than to hog the spotlight to themselves. Still, ISFJs like to talk and communicate with others. They are social in their interests, and so are drawn to things that are popular, trendy, and have social value.
Their introverted and judging style tends to draw them towards personal and long-term goals. Many ISFJs dream of running their own cafe, store or bed and breakfast. Their focus is on their home and on their personal space, and they want to create a friendly and hospitable environment around them that will attract the interest of other people.
The ISFJ personality type needs many things to thrive and be happy. First, they need to feel like other people listen and want to hear them out. The community needs to value them and believe in them, otherwise, ISFJs may feel like failures in the eye of society.
The ISFJ also needs to feel paid attention to and seen. The ISFJ at their worst wrestle a feeling of feeling ignored, invisible, and forgotten. Beyond this, while ISFJs need control, they also need spontaneous elements in their life. They need for things to happen around them, to have activity and life around them, and so, many are attracted to the idea of big families or organising a fun and engaging party where people can come, be wild and have fun.
Lastly, it is important for an ISFJ to be in passionate, and heated environments. Ideally, they want to feel that people around them care and have feelings, that people will tell them when they are upset and that other people will share with them rather than keep things to themselves. When they have these needs met, they can engage in their four dominant functions, introspecting on the emotions they perceive, bringing order to the chaos around them.
The ISFJ cognitive functions are introverted sensing, associated with intelligent awareness of ones history and roots, introverted feeling, associated with skill in interpreting peoples emotions and intentions. ISFJs also, beyond this, have sensing and judging, associated with organisation and control of ones physical surroundings, and feeling judging, associated with social control, charm, and community building.
With introverted feeling, the ISFJ becomes introspective and intro-personal. They want to have a purpose or a motive for why they are here and what they are meant to do, and often have a strong sense of “ought” or “should.” They may feel they are meant to be something or someone or that there is a deeper personal reason they need to express outwardly.
The introverted sensing side of the ISFJ is what gives them patience. ISFJs can be patient because they know they have strong roots and that there is a deeper history that makes them feel connected to the people around them. They know that even if things change in the moment, the past remains the same, and that gives them a stability that is hard to shake.
Because they are feeling and judging types, they are often thinking about how other people relate to this. ISFJs want to introduce you to their world, to show you their home, their place, and to tell you about their background. They are drawn to being teachers that will introduce other people to life and how things are. They are inclined to forgive and want to show kindness and acceptance towards other people.
Sensing and judging tends to make this type one that is attracted to control. Sensing and judging types tend to pick up on things that happen around them in the moment, thinking about when the proper time or place to do something. They like to think about what they have and what they can do with it, how long it will last, and what is the best way to do something. The ISFJ is attracted to the idea of discipline, showing diligence and persistence in what they do.
Stereotypically, ISFJs are described as self-sacrificing helpers and protectors. They are sometimes described as controlling and manipulative, and other times as predictable and boring. Most of these stereotypes come from negative experiences people have had, or from ignorance and lack of experience with the ISFJ personality type. The ISFJs are sure, kind types, and they can be helpful, but not all ISFJs are going to be overtly helpful or attached to the helper role.
Some may be more focused on channeling their kindness through work or careers, perhaps as politicians, and others will be focused on designing or making clothes or working in service oriented fields where they can create clothes that people will like and want to wear. ISFJs have a routinely side but are not necessarily dismissive of creativity and other peoples ideas. The most important thing for an ISFJ is that there is an order to things, we cannot just switch from one thing to another.
There is a right time and place for everything and the ISFJ dislikes when people change a topic or distract from the plan they had in their mind. ISFJs are neither going to be necessarily more loyal than other types. While their roots and sense of history and identity can make them appear consistent and loyal, but tied down and inflexible, many ISFJs can enjoy travel, going to new places. and trying new things. The most important thing is just that they always remember who they are and that they keep their feat on the ground as they do.